"guys have dicks. and they can only think with one head at a time." - a guy friend told me that after he tried to make out with me.

so i understand that you don't have self-restraint, but don't you have at least an ounce of respect for the girl in question? some men say that it is the ladies that lead them on to think it's okay - but seriously, do you think it's okay?

i was on the phone yesterday,
'how many girls have you kissed?'
'over 40.' he said, straight up with nothing to hide.
i hummed and hawwed nonchalently.
'and how many have you let sleep on your bed? not have sex with, but sleep.' i defined the difference with purpose.

why? promiscuity has shifted the lines of what is appropriate between the opposing genders, i stand with the thanks-for-your-bed,but-i-prefer-your-couch.

he listed the girls, and i shan't disclose them. he summed them up: 4.
'so how is it you can kiss 40 girls and only have 4 of them in your bed?'
'i leave all that outside my house. and only at clubs. i only, i stress only, do things like that when i'm clubbing.'

has the reputation of clubbing kept to the stereotype that it's the sleazy arena where rules are non existant? - it would explain why guys grind girls without their permission.

we move on to another topic, it eventually ends here:
'when i kiss the girls, i respect them.' hmm? did he say respect?
'how so?' i query.
'my hands stay at their faces, not their boobs, nor their butts nor any other private part, JUST their face/neck.' this IS interesting.
he continues, 'when you kiss girls without intrudin their space, it leaves them with a WOW feeling. it makes them want me.' if anyone other than him said, it makes them want me, it would've sounded very cocky and chauvinistic - but it was nothing like that, it was xingg.
i smiled.

if i could do anything, i would like to teach guys how to get girls.
here's lesson number one: RESPECT her. if you respect a girl, she'll go mad for you.

stick around for lesson number two.

this blog was relevant to a ms. valerie anne from when she was studying mass communications in a singapore polytechnic.

she was aged 16 on her first post, and 18 on her last.

she is currently a freelance emcee-er/hostess.
contact her at
valerieanne @ cheerful.com

some might call me the ultimate sagittarian; free-spirited and whatnot, but i don't believe in horoscopes.

"everything gets complicated when you think. i don't discourage thinking, it's over thinking that i'm worried about." - val


none existent.


i've moved on.

shop alot?


. make Valerie Anne are big name
. publish a book entitled "you better quote val, or else" - recommended by derek goh
. open a clip-on earrings shop
. open a cafe
. learn/speak spanish
. skydive over mauritius waters
. bungee jump from a suspension bridge
. get back into my dancing shoes
. set a world record for the longest time on a roller coaster ride
. save an endangered species
. AND prove to my mum that i'll be married before 35. HAHA.


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